How I see sex

You see, to me sex isn't one of those things that should be all hyped up about love and relationships.

It may sound weird but I see it as something you just do.

Maybe its to make the other person feel good about them self, maybe its just because you both have sexual feelings towards one another, but in my eyes it doesn't mean a relationship is needed.

Sex isn't what defines the relationship, the feelings you have for someone is.

For example:

Say you felt like you could live with that person for the rest of your life and you know you would be happy with them by your side, grow old with kids etc...

That to me is a relationship.

Maybe its just me but I see a strong black line between love and lust..

In my eyes sex is a lust thing. Something you crave and something you could "want" with many people.

Where as to have love for someone is to want a relationship where you stay with them forever and that you don't crave its just there.

Its hard for me to explain but basically I don't feel like sex is such a big thing and that people confuse it as a thing of love when its actually lust.

Now to have feelings of lust for someone else doesn't mean your relationship is doomed to fail.. nor does it mean you love someone else.. it simply means that you are human and you have thought about "what if" but because you "LOVE" the person your with you choose to express your thoughts with them and spend your whole life being honest with them about everything.